thought of this one while i was in the shower earlier.
well, if you thought the last one made you think....
try this one!!
the difference between "want" and "need".
im sure everyone has heard the phrase, "you dont want me, you just need me" in a break-up scenario.
but!! heres the kicker!! what a person wants and what a person needs are two very different things! anyone who is a parent can testify to this. hell, anyone with a pulse and 1/10th of a brain knows this.
and the same goes with relationships.
if you only think a person should want you. then it means you are disposable. replaceable. not a necessity but a luxary. simple as. no questions asked. you are no different than a 10 year old playstation1 or a mcdonalds happy meal toy from yesterday. and in my opinion, thats rather disturbing.... id rather have an SO who needs me for atleast SOMETHING!! something that hopefully nobody else can offer.
"wanting" is like wishing in one hand and shitting in the other and seeing which one fills up faster.
"needing" is like more honest and real. it is a necessity of life.
now, if youre one of those stupid types who has an SO who does nothing.... as in:
they dont have a job.
they dont do anything around the house.
they dont take care of the kids (if you have kids)
they spend all your money.
they dont fix anything that needs fixed (in material terms; sink, lightbulbs, toilet, car, etc, etc, etc.)
and they dont even give you a peice of ass.
if they do all of those things,
THEN you can say they're "needy".
if thats not the case, then grow the fuck you spoiled rotten bastards/bitches who complain about someone "needing" you. take it as a compliment for fucks sakes and think about someone other than yourself. if someone "needs" you, then you are obviously important to them. if they "want" you, it means youre only temporarily important to them. get the hint!? or not?